Tuesday, May 27, 2008'♥
Today as usual woke up at morning 5am plus...And bath,prepare for breadfast..Went coffeeshop alone =( as eng kiong today can't leave his bed..Aww...anyway todae i'll be making an trip to amk..on visiting my nanny and relatives..two days before,i went to visit my grandfather,my beloved ah gong..
His sad story,he's only son from young...
He married my Grandmother(whom passed away on 2006)
They had six children...3 sons and 3 daughter...
Oh,the first Son,(ah hee) gave everything to his china wife..under tremendous control of his wife.
when i was around sec 1,my ah ma was hospitalise,then when she came out..she need an walking stick or wheel chair..the first son kept saying no money..actually all of us knew was he didn't wanted to fork out the money..
The 2nd Son(ah Hock)
Erm had a house in yishun..my grandparent stayed there for long..but however he was in debts.He left no choices to kick his parents out then rent the whole house to others.Recently i heard frm my ah gong that he scold my ah gong that asking him to go old folks home in a kind of tone.haiz..
The 3rd son..
From young was an ah beng like me..didn't study hard...became an gangster..
married twice..but until the history of now,none of his wife liked his parents..
His first wife would create an big scene if she knew his parent want to move in their flag..
His second wife was perfectly alright to me..Until two before,my ah gong told me she didn't talk to my ah gong at all..she ignore him...then they had babies,they send the babies to her own mum house..
Now the 1st daughter(my big aunt)
stay very far..their finance was an problem..she was caring..so she's okay...
The 2nd daughter(my mum)
Our finance was an problem too...my mum was the most caring i can say..the fillial out of all..
often visit them and brought things for them to eat or bring them out sometimes..but my mum says if we are leave with no choice,we'll ask my ah gong move in...
i'm very willing :D
The 3rd daughter..
Stayed sembawang..the most educated out of all..but the most uncaring one..
stayed 5 room flag wif her husband.nvr really talk to them or visit them...
like ah gong and ah ma wasn't her parents...like strangers...
When last two years my most beloved ma passed away..i remember she went through many sufferings..went many operation..my ah gong was the most worried..didn't slept for many days just to wait for the news..
He cried the most when my ah ma passed away....the most loving couple i had ever seen...
i remember when in the funeral,the 1st son like hack care hack care...didn't do anything..
i almost wanted to pick an fight..i wanted to throw chair on him...
such an heartless guy...we were folding paper(burn to dead ppl)
he was sleeping upstair....haiz...
i still remember my ah ma last breath..in hospital..
Before she died one week or two week plus..
Me,my mum and kor kor brought bird nest for her..
she could smile and talk...normally she can't...we took photos..bring her around for an walk to see fishes...feed the fishes....haiz..after that she passed away..haiz..
In the loving memory of my ah ma x33s
